The Sad Reality

Reality of life

We as human beings have different experiences, thought processes, and expectations. Life is all about ups and downs, sad and happy times, or in another way I can say white and black. Unexpected things happen in our lives for which we have never prepared, mentally or physically. Hence, at times we don’t know what to do, how to react, or how to correct the situation. Life is just like a number line, which can be positive or negative. 0 is considered a positive integer. Hence, there is no phase called neutral.

Just as in mathematics, we need negative integers to solve a problem or bring positive integers. Likewise, life is all about. There is a saying in which says that – “Don’t get too happy if you have success or don’t get too sad for your failure”. Everything will pass just like the sun sets and we can always start a new day like the sun rises, with a smile. Though we can’t help our life’s faith and destiny, everything should be taken with a pinch of salt and we should face the world just like a lotus that flowers every day even though it is surrounded by the utmost dirt, and muddy water. It never fails to shine on every bright sunny day.

Life is a cycle that repeats every time. A child nearing its teen has much innocence and has a let-go policy. But a person who is an adult has a damaged mind. No offense. An adult whether a man or a woman, has a high potential to achieve success and at the same time can attain failure if not worked properly. I would say this is where life starts! Being grown-ups people around the age of 20s, have a maximum height of emotions, sensitivity, and potential. This is a very crucial stage in our lives that will determine what we are and how we are. This is the stage where we develop our habits, we make choices to stay with our loved ones and this is where we gain our freedom.

Sometimes life is challenging and has obstacles where decision-making is quite difficult. In these times our parents who always used to help in our decision making will not be there in our toughest times. The worst part of all is that only you are left and no one is beside you to help you. How are we gonna move on? Another sad reality is that people are selfish. The only difference is that there is a hierarchy where some are more selfish and some are not that much. But at the end of the day, everyone is just going fill their belly i.e everyone is going watch their well-being whether mentally or physically, and take decisions accordingly. Even though we tend to all this, at last this is what is going to matter, which is a very harsh reality of being to accept.

Some have a very good life in all stages of their life and some struggle for the little happiness that they can get. Controlling young minds is another challenging task. Here is where people start being religious, following the principles of their god or some take the opposite direction where they will get happiness. Some follow the right path and some do not. But both of them are seeking happiness at last which is again a person’s well-being. Now the repercussions faced are a different topic. So now I think you get it, people will always seek their well-being.

The motto of writing this content is just that we know the harsh realities around us and be prepared to face the world so that there will be less pain engaged.